{"id":596,"date":"2025-08-18T22:22:40","date_gmt":"2025-08-19T05:22:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ryk.groetchen.com\/blog\/?p=596"},"modified":"2025-08-18T22:22:42","modified_gmt":"2025-08-19T05:22:42","slug":"%f0%9f%92%97-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ryk.groetchen.com\/blog\/2025\/08\/18\/%f0%9f%92%97-2\/","title":{"rendered":"[\ud83d\udc97]"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>When one offers a request for respect<br>(reasonable)<br>one seems to hear a demand for compliance<br>(white)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When one offers an invitation to consider<br>(black)<br>one seems to hear a demand to comply<br>(unreasonable)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One suspects that somewhere between reasonable offerings<br>(black)<br>and unreasonable demands<br>(white)<br>there&#8217;s a place one meets<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(not just grey, but infinitely colorful, <br>including all the greys and colors)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(if there&#8217;s a space between)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(one has faith and hope<br>in the space between)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One has faith in respecting the request for respect, and<br>one has hope in considering the invitation to consider.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Somewhere between<br>reasonable and unreasonable,<br>black and white<br><br>\u2013as vulnerable as that space might seem\u2013<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>there&#8217;s hope that one meets faith there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One might say there&#8217;s faith in hope there.<br>One might hear in hope there&#8217;s faith there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The heart is in the space between.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When one offers a request for respect(reasonable)one seems to hear a demand for compliance(white) When one offers an invitation to consider(black)one seems to hear a demand to comply(unreasonable) One suspects that somewhere between reasonable offerings(black)and unreasonable demands(white)there&#8217;s a place one meets (not just grey, but infinitely colorful, including all the greys and colors) (if there&#8217;s &#8230; <a title=\"[\ud83d\udc97]\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/ryk.groetchen.com\/blog\/2025\/08\/18\/%f0%9f%92%97-2\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about [\ud83d\udc97]\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[29,27,28,31,14,26,16,15,9,30],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-596","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-chronicle","category-didactics","category-ethos","category-innerlog","category-neurodiversity","category-personal-narrative","category-poem","category-politics","category-reflection","category-zen"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paor1p-9C","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":446,"url":"https:\/\/ryk.groetchen.com\/blog\/2025\/06\/22\/showing-up\/","url_meta":{"origin":596,"position":0},"title":"Showing Up","author":"Ryk Groetchen","date":"June 22, 2025","format":false,"excerpt":"We hear this phrase a lot: just show up. 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