Many are recognized as being different, while many don’t recognize that each and every one is different. Recognition shouldn’t be a pointed finger. It should be a hug. We each and all are different. Difference is life, recognizing itself. Many times a day. Have a hug. I recognize you!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Many are recognized as being different, while many don’t recognize that each and every one is different. Recognition shouldn’t be a pointed finger. It should be a hug. We each and all are different. Difference is life, recognizing itself. Many times a day. Have a hug. 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